Optimize `from_bitwise_binary_op`

[Dandandan]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
from_bitwise_binary_op Can be slow when the

• buffer is not 64-bit aligned
• offset is not a multiple of 8 (byte aligned) or 64 (64-bit aligned)

Describe the solution you'd like
Implement the same optimizations as in #9297

• Align to 8 bytes
• Don't try to return a buffer with bit_offset 0 but round it to a multiple of 64
• Use chunk_exact for the fallback path

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

[kunalsinghdadhwal]

@Dandandan Kindly assign it to me

[alamb]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'arrow'} from #9441

[alamb]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'next-major-release'} from #9441