Yet another strong params support

[bryanrite]

Inspiration taken from #958, #911, and others.

This adds strong parameters support but with some smart defaults. Since strong_parameters really only affects cancan for :create and :update actions, we only apply params for those actions. Further more, by default, we try to run several methods in order:

• create_params or update_params (depending on the action you are requesting, allows you to override the following other methods if you have different params for creating and updating the resource)
• <model_name>_params such as ability_params (the default rails 4 convention when naming your param method)
• resource_params (a generically named method... so you don't have to change the method name if you change your model name or cancan key)

Further more, you can specify a custom method to run via the param_method option:

load_and_authorize_resource param_method: :my_sanitizer

It is also backwards compatible as if none of the methods are found it will carry on with the legacy way.

I've updated the readme and changelogs if we ever get a 1.6.11.

[james2m]

+1 @bryanrite this is a nice solution, thanks.